The Brazilian for men is also known as the “bum, crack and sack” in gay circles. It involves you getting on all four and being waxed around all of your special bits. The whole situation was rather surreal but my waxing guy made it a relaxing experience. He was very experienced yet it was hard making small talk while you are naked and spread eagle! “I do tons of these a day, half my clients are straight,” he said as he warmed up the wax. “The price of beauty,” I wondered. Sydney men, gay or straight are very much anti hair. I do not mind a bit of chest hair (manly) but not into the guerrilla look. Having said that I dated a Lebanese/Australian guy who had a jungle. I know he was self conscious about it. His hair got in the way of good sex and it was the type of hair that could just not get waxed.

• Egypt Dating For Olders

After a break up, you experience all kinds of pain…emotional pain, financial pain (should not have bought those..) and physical pain…ouch! I refer to a full Brazilian waxing for man! My friend suggested it would cheer me up. Waxing…I wondered…I probably did need my body to be ready for a bit of action down under. Why not…I mean how much could it hurt?? I figured I was already in pain..heartbreak so what’s a bit of wax and pulling.

• HK Seniors

When I was growing up I always wanted a hairy chest. My older brother had one, why not me I wondered? I’m thankful I have hair in the right places. Think on my head and just a bit around my butt. “It is normal. Most guys have a bit of hair on their ass and crack,” said Mr Wax. I guess I had seen too many porn movies with smooth assess, those guys wax too confirmed Mr Wax. After 45 minutes and many “ouchs,” I was hair free and ready to party. He even threw an eye brow for free. I’m supposed to go back in six weeks…now time to get that bootie out there!

• Jordan Older Mates

They say love is a chemical reaction….the spark, the instant attraction…. It is intangible…you cannot fake it. It is either there or not there. Chemistry decides if he will be a friend or a lover. It is hard to find…I’ve only had that chemistry with four or five guys. But what happens if it is only one way? Can you develop chemistry with someone or is it only immediate? Hank was trying to sort out. He had been on two dates and was telling me about them over dinner. For some reason, even though I’ve had the most horrible break up…everyone still talks to me about their relationships. I am so the last person to be asked about dating or relationship advice. I feel like the priest at Catholic school who taught me sex education. WTF?

• Kuwait Over 50 Dating

Nope. I’m not dating. My ex may be. He was wearing his first date shirt. It was the same shirt he was wearing on our first date. The truth is he looks better in t shirts. But everyone seems to be getting out there…dating. Maybe it’s the fact that Valentine’s Day is coming up. Maybe no none wants to be alone. First dates are rough. They are a bit like job interviews. Your future happiness revolves around a 30 minute session. You have to ask a lot of questions and be prepared to give good answers. You want to sell yourself, you want him to like you. You want to be keen but not too keen. You are trying to read body language.

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